The well-known South Korean singer IU and actor Lee Jung-sei announced their date on the last day of 2022. Japanese actor Ono, actress Tatsuya, Japanese singer Aimer, and Taiwanese golden song King Weng Liyou also announced their marriage news on New Year's Day 2023. Lin Cuifen, a consultant psychologist, said that the interaction between "the beginning of the new year" and "the three-year epidemic situation is unblocked" has caused a change in the psychology of people. In addition, life and death in the epidemic often develops life view or priority changes, which will prompt people to make decisions and take actions on things that were originally hesitant or sluggish.
Lin Cuifen said that when a new year begins, people's hearts will turn around, and it is possible to start and end. Many studies have found that at the beginning of the New Year, people will have the desire to remove old and reorganize new things, and they will hope that in the new year, there will be new decisions in life. Many things that have been psychologically curious, such as having liked someone for a long time, may feel that they have to give themselves some energy to do different things, such as confession. In contrast, you may have to end a relationship and break up before you can confess your new relationship.
"The passionate component of confession is higher. Unless it is a flash marriage, the thinking element of getting married is higher." Lin Cuifen said that flash marriage is usually more passionate, and may suddenly want to get married when the enthusiasm is at its highest level under the atmosphere. Marriage is an ultimate promise. If you want to settle down and grow old together with someone, you believe that "someone is with you and work hard to live together" is important.
Why is the global epidemic unblocked this year and so many people announced their marriages? Lin Cuifen said that in the past three years of the epidemic, many people have been forced to isolate themselves from close contacts or families. In this lonely situation where pressure and restrictions are under pressure, people's demand for close contact will increase. Through consulting experience and working experience in medical institutions, many of the clients' life experience will change after they are separated from life and death. In the past, I thought that work was the most important, but later I thought that family and love were the most important.
Lin Cuifen said that some isolated people cannot be content with their own feelings and feel lonely, lonely, and abandoned. She has a friend like this. She thinks that being alone is so terrible, so after the isolation crisis is lifted, he got married immediately.
Some people also found that it is important for someone to take care of themselves after they got sick. Lin Cuifen said that there was a relationship in which one of the parties wanted to break up because he thought the other party was often picky about him. After confirming that the other party did not leave when he needed it most, but instead stayed by his side, paying attention to his movements at any time, helping him at any time, making him so moved that he suddenly felt strongly that "it can't be without him." In the past, he felt very annoyed and was not that important now.
However, in addition to making people decide to stay together, many people also decide to break up. Lin Cuifen said that some of the partners rarely lived in intensive life before, but they were closed together during the epidemic and worked from home. The interaction frequency was too high, which highlighted all the unfit areas of each other, so they decided to separate them.
"The new year begins and is about to be unblocked, and these two factors will interact." Lin Cuifen said that the Chinese New Year is coming. After the Chinese New Year is actually the peak period for breaking up, and the beginning of the new year will also be the peak period for the development of new relationships. No matter what age, it is possible that you will start to turn your mood and think carefully about major decisions in life at this moment. For example, when you graduate, want to change your job, and change relationships, everyone's new year's new expectations are actually not to suffer anymore, don't want to hesitate anymore, and if you accumulate to a point of view, you will take action.