Some things and things are taken for granted or done, and in fact they are more relaxed after being left alone. A collection of 30-year-old Japanese students, and also shared a very simple life through SNS. Now living with her husband and daughter, her home is amazing and simple. She shared five things and things that felt good after she let go.
1: The TV and TV cabinet of the living roomPico used to think that "a living room with a large TV and TV cabinet at home" is considered a family. It was not until one time when I went to a friend's house and saw the "living room without anything", that I realized that I was being held in a fixed view.
The friend's house replaced the TV with a projector, which made people impressed. Afterwards, Pico began to like the refreshing living room, so he removed the TV cabinet first. Because he respected Mr.'s opinion, the TV did not really drop it, but it had been moved to the second floor room quietly, and it was almost useless, so it might have been dealt with too early.
Now the living room has fewer large items, which is not only not at all difficult, but is more spacious and comfortable.
The toaster is clean and irritating. Pico is often secretly scattered, so it will be used if it is dirty. Later I found out that fish roasting can also be used to toast bread, so I immediately decided to put down the toaster.
It is not inconvenient to lose the baking machine. What's more, the original toast machine of Pico's house is red, which is abrupt in the kitchen and does not match the overall atmosphere. After putting it down, the kitchen was uniformly black, white and gray, which looked cleaner and the space was much more comfortable.
3: Excessive stockingsJust when you start trying to live a very simple life, Pico resists and eliminates "there's still something to use." For example, a broken towel is always thought to be left as a rag. But someone reminded: "Is this really necessary?" Later, I simply cleared it at once, and I found that there would be no trouble at all.
This allows the Pico body to reach that it is actually unintentional to stock up too much, and no matter how much you don’t use it, it has no value. The day when "it will be used one day" often does not come.
Before living a very simple life, Pico had many "should be done" thoughts in his heart, but these were actually just invisible pressures. With the loss, she also learned to let go of the "should" in her heart, which was a huge change for her.
One of them is "Must dye your hair". When I was alone, I went to the beauty salon to dye my hair almost every two months. But after giving birth, going to the beauty salon means having to arrange childcare first, which is very troublesome. If she couldn't dye her hair in time, her hair roots would clearly grow, which made her care very much.
Pico later thought that it would be better not to get involved, but instead he would save worry and time. Now she doesn't have white hair, so she doesn't have to worry about hair problems at all. Just cut her hair to keep it refreshed. When you want to change, try to do some hidden highlights on the inner layer of your hair, which is also very interesting.
5: Strong international relationshipsrarely meet friends during the epidemic, and they often say "live back together after a stable situation." But the situation was settled later, and when someone said this, Pico realized, "Maybe it just a polite word, right?" Because if you really want to meet, you should make a reservation directly.
So Pico decided to leave only the precious time for the people he really wanted. In this way, you don’t have to force yourself anymore, and you can treat the people you cherish more.