"Dad and mother need children s company more than they think." When the child grows up, he has empty nest syndrome. Doing this thing is not empty.

People often say that raising children is like relaxing their winds. Only by relaxing their winds can the winds fly higher, but they cannot clearly see the beautiful colors of the winds, so they will not be lonely. Aqing, who is 50 years old, returned home at 6:30 in the evening. Her children went to the city of foreign county to read books. Her husband went home in a busy evening. She faced the empty house and wanted to find a partner to chat. As soon as the phone was connected, "Child, mom misses you."

The child left home and empty nest syndrome appeared

"Mom, I'm busy, I'll call you later." "I miss you very much, you don't miss me." Aqing was so angry that the child didn't miss her, and she cried as she said, and her heart was broken and she became more and more worried. Lin Cuifen, a psychologist at the Songde Clinic, said that Ah Qing's love comes from the empty nest period. When the child grows up, he has a sense of his growth. His parents feel that he is no longer needed. Some parents even try their children to go to college and continue their focus.

Not only mothers will be depressed due to empty nest periods, but fathers will, but some parents do not know where those feelings of loss and other bad emotions come from. Lin Cuifen said that when the child has a sense of knowledge, if the parents feel uncomfortable, the child goes out with friends on holidays and does not spend time with his family, starts to reduce family activities and does not feel necessary to come out strongly. These are actually common phenomena in "empty nest syndrome".

Find the location. It is not just that the arrival of summer vacation every year means that a group of freshmen will go abroad or go to other counties to recite books, and at the same time, a group of newbies in the empty nest period will also be born. "Dads and mothers are more attached to their children and need their children's company more than they think." Lin Cuifen smiled and said that fathers and mothers can prepare psychologically in advance and often tell themselves that their children are independent. This is the responsibility of teaching children to end, and the focus of life can finally return to themselves.

The father and mother always have endless things to deal with for Zhang Luo’s children’s food, clothing, housing, transportation and education. Lin Cuifen said that the most common thing about father and mother in the empty nest period is that there is too much time. Many people will mistakenly think that the best way to avoid empty nesting period is to fill in the extra time, but in fact, you should find your position again. The independence of your child is the starting point of the life meaning of parents in the second half of their life.

Lin Cuifen said that everyone will play many roles on the stage of life, being someone's companion and close friend, but in the past, the role of "Dad" may have appeared frequently, and other roles have been forgotten. After the child is not at home, it is recommended that the father and mother can find their favorite roles, such as wife or sisters, enjoy life.

Return to the hot and do things that couples like

The child is away from home and is not at home. It is a good time for parents to return to the hot and hot. The holiday time is planned for two people, watch movies, and eat at the restaurant, as if they are back to the young appointment. Lin Cuifen said that he often encounters his father and mother who does nothing after they are separated because his children are not at home. His father and mother can continue to arrange family days, which is a planning activity that both husband and wife like.

Through video, it is not sticking to children.  

Lin Cuifen encourages the focus to return to the orange generation on himself. He is looking at the empty nest period. The couple can discuss the life list of "I have always wanted to do it, but I have not done it because of the children", or they can do what they like and take courses they like; children who go to foreign counties to study will have their own world. When they want children, their parents can occasionally contact their children through video.